Forming opinion about others
We live in a society. Society is made of people. In our day-to-day life, we meet many people. Some we like. Some we do not like. Some we want to meet again. Some we do not want to meet again. Why it happens like this?
Invariably, during these meetings we form some opinion about the people we meet. This opinion influences our present and future relationship with them. With many people some form of relationship is established, but with some other people no relationship is established. There is nothing wrong in it.
The opinion, which we form about others, normally depend on our own perception of various aspects of human life. If the person we meet passes our perception we like him. But if he does not, we do not like him. There is nothing wrong in it also.
But what is not right is that we try to influence others by our opinion about the third person. If we do not like the third person, we want our friends also not to like him. It creates problems. It creates unpleasant situations. I try to avoid forming opinion about others and accept them as they are.This keeps me free of any tension and any conflict with others to a considerable extent.
Thats bcoz the person whom we like to meet again talk meets our thinking and fequency.
Some have got good perception that they can determined the behaviour and their need by just looking at their face so they like to meet them as they have a good cause as they seems.
one should be like that only..to accept the ppl as they are as it gives you satisfaction and makes other feel happy and comfortable in your company..forming an opinion always bridges a gap between the people around…but sometimes we fail to do so…but can try to control our emotions to a certain level..wonderfully said
Just in case we know very well that the third person is absolutely bad, can we not warn someone about the same. Does this tantamount to influencing.?
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