Sense Of Guilt

An emotion or feeling that lets us down most of the time in everyday life is guilt . When we cannot complete some thing within the time despite all the genuine effort we feel the guilt , even when it doesnot affect much in our day to activity . people who try to make others happy are those who are the sufferers of guilt .

This feeling of guilt in day to day life arises mostly from accusations , rather than from crimes . Suppose I reached home late in the evening . I already start feeling bad , but the sense of guilt rises when someone says that I am not punctual . Thus in other aspects too we feel the guilt when others accuse us , whether it is about some real accusations or just assumed . Surveys show that most modern men and women feel the guilt for not spending much time with their families . Moms feel guilty for they sometimes cannot cook for family and kids . Fathers feel guilty because despite trying they cannot attend the parent teacher Meeting or cannot be a part of child rearing actively . Women even feel it more , if someone has been offensive towards them or pass any lewd comment they feel guilty about themselves .

Today the guilt or remorse is not about the any sin . we don’t feel guilty for our reals faults which are associated with others in society . Like we mostly don’t feel guilty if we cannot help some needy people . But I will feeel the guilt if I cannot bring the gift for the child . Thus the family non -issues which we make issues to be guilt can be dangerous in long run . If everyday we feel guilty for something for which we are not responsible for then it will take toll upon our health . So it is very important to find out issues which we can avoid to take in the heart . And to concentrate on

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7 Responses

  1. Service_to_all says:


    Your example of feeling of guilt arising out of someone complaining your late coming is one of not being prepared for a response. If you are right and have not committed any mistake or not hiding the fact, there should be no feeling of guilt.

    Parents feeling guilty for not spending enough time with their children is something they ought to undergo if they genuinely have not spent quality time with their children.

    As regards women feeling guilty when someone passes lewd remarks, is something which I will not agree. It is just that they have not ignored the remarks or that they have not been able to control their emotions in such situations.

    Whatever be the issue, the emotion of guilt should be replaced with logical reasoning of where things have gone wrong and take corrective measures.


  2. jmalhotra says:


    then it means that you have accepted your fault and want to improve upon the same no hard feeling be kept in mind rather should be able to move ahead to improve upon the same

  3. lkjhgf says:

    The feeling of guilt comes when u r doing something wrong or u cannot do certain things the example of coming late doesnot supports ur views. If u r late but not due to ur fault then u should not b guilty and if u r not at fault and someone tells that u r not punctual , then u dont feel guilty instead u bcum angry for the words that he used.

    The virtue lies in the struggle, not the prize.

  4. abhirup20002 says:

    Yes I agree with you, good topic written here.
    Yes sense of the guiltiness is the main thing. And after sensing the most important thing is to do recover it.

  5. betterlife says:

    I think is related to having committed an offense, crime, violation, or wrong, esp. against moral or penal law. Simply reaching late is not guilt. If we start feeling guilty for such things then our being alive itself will become a guilt.

    Sense of guilt should be followed by steps to compensate the harm caused to self, others and society; and then not to repeat that act.

    “प्रेम करो सबसे, नफरत न करो किसी से”
    “Love all, Hate none”

  6. betterlife says:

    யு ஆர் ரிக்த்ட்.

    Did I write it correctly?

    “प्रेम करो सबसे, नफरत न करो किसी से”
    “Love all, Hate none”

  7. Ruby says:

    Wonderful writing about the day today activities, hats off for your flow of thought. Yes, we need to be guilty for not helping the needy or not showing concern for those who are pain and agony. Really nice article!! Jesus Cares for U

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