Young Valentines Note That !
My husband was somehow not feeling well and perhaps upset with me . He is the one creature who just stop talking if I utter a single word harshly . I just forgot what I told him that he disliked so much . I have to deal with so much problem maintaining my schedule properly because of my little daughter . She is still very young to do anything for herself . I love to write and want to spend some quality time devoted to hone my skills .So I too need enough time to do things what I love to do . Of course both of us take care of her . But the presure my husband had to bear during duty hours sometimes left him with no stamina to handle her tantrums .
In the morning when I wished him a Happy valentine’s day he asked me “Why are you wishing me ?What is this Valentine day ?”. Hmm I could sense why he suddenly became so dumb . I didn’t give up though I was much hurt at his reply . Oh God why did I wished him . It took o much effort to dig out what wrong I had uttered to upset him so much !! At last after telling lots of things that I really didnot mean ,I could make him talk to me .
Why it is so that people get irritated with something so real . I need to correct him at times . Perhaps I told him something which I really meant , because at times he is so lazy , so reluctant to do his works . why he should be upset to this level , that I need to pamper him . What if I too remain silent or let him be .
I just did it not because I want to celebrate this one day for love , but because I don’t like any kind of tension anywhere in my family. At last I could find out his lost voice anyhow. Love is just like that . Young valentines ,note that .
jmalhotra
if you love somebody ..it is endless..need no excuses for making it feel but it comes automatically…and is reciprocated beautifully beyond your expectations ..at the right time
Thanks sir , for the kind words , I don’t worry at all in this things . But am surprised to see how life evolved everyday . And is not a surprise that man needs to me pampered , though they say that they are strong . This is just a post about my a slice of my life .
Thank you dear , for your kind words .
Hello,
There are several ways you could view this reaction.
It is quite probable, that he was not aware of what Valentines day is and he is not wrong as it is not part of our culture.
It is also probable, that he felt, that you love to love him, on one particular day and the rest of the days you dont.
If you believe everyday is a valentines day and act accordingly he would definitely have reacted in a much more plesant manner.
Regards,
SERVICE TO ALL
Every man goes through a period in his life where he wants to stay away from the world and live in his own world. They will emerge out of the cave once they feel they are confident and start showering love on the family and the dearest ones. This cycle repeats often. I think your husband is going through one of these cycles and i”m sure he will emerge out soon. I suggest you read the book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” by John Gray. It is a really cool book about how men and women look differently at the same issues. It will surely help you renew your relationship as it has helped many all over the world.
Do tell me whether my advice was of any help to you…all the best
Thanks Vinoth ,
I know this , that why I let him take his time , try to reach to him at times . He is the most sensitive and loving person I know . But I am surprised to watch the mechanisms of life , how it changes everyday , how we get irritated at things we should not actually .
S.K.Dasgupta
THESE ARE VERY MINOR THINGS MY DEAR. YOU NEED NOT WORRY . ALL THESE HAPPEN AND CHANGE LIKE SEASONS. AS SEASON CHANGES WE DO NOT FEEL BORE ABOUT A YEAR TO PASS ON. SO ALSO ABOUT THE LIFE. THESE MINOR DIFFERENCES IMPROVE THE ATTRACTION AND FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER. JUST A MENTALITY OF ADJUSTMENT AND UNDERSTANDING IS REQUIRED.
LOVE IS ONLY IN THE LIFE, IT HAVING MIXTURE.
LOVE, OBSTACLES, ODDS,. ETC.
THESE R U R NOT ONLY FACING,
IN THESE WORLD HAVE EVERY ONE FACING THAT,
U R FACING LIKE THESE,
SEE, MY PROBLEM,
I AM FACING ONLY FOR FINANCIAL,
I HAVE FOR EATING SO MANY ITEMS IN MY SHOP,
THEN, THE FINANCIAL CRISIS DO LIKE TO EAT THAT,
IN MY STOMACH WANTS ANY ITEM TO EAT, THE SITUATION NOT IT TAKE THAT ITEM NOW,
HOW I CAN MANAGE,
IF I AM IN HUNGRY, WHAT I CAN DO,
ME, MY WIFE ALSO FACING EVERY DAY THESE THINGS.
MY BROTHER-IN-LAW
HAVE MONEY, CHILDREN, FATHER MOTHER ETC.
THEY FEELING ANOTHER THINGS,
MY COUSIN BROTHER,
HE HAVING JOB, OWN HOUSE, BANK BALANCE,
N, HIS AGE NOW 32 YRS.
AT THE AGE HE CANN”T MARRIED,
HE PROBLEM LIKE THESE,
DON”T WORRY,
THE DAYS R COMES IN U R LIFE WITH FULL OF JOY”S
HAVE A NICE NIGHT.
LASTLY,
IN THESE DAY U N U HUSBAND
NJOY NIGHT.
HAVE GOOD DREMS FOR BRIGHT FUTURE.
THANKING U
URS
EVS786.